My name is Pat Swan ,, I have bipolar diorder and am now taking care of a friend who just had heart surgery, and is suppose to have knee replacement surgery in  8 weeks. I'm scared , and str...

I am helping my mother take care of my grandmother.She has to go to work so I stay here during the day.We can only get her to take a few bites of puree food and sips of water.We are told to start thinking about a G-tube.She gets weaker every day and fights us.She spits anything out after a few bites.She has demensia and tell us we are killing her.Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

I wish I had known that moving mom and selling her house, would have been so hard, she seems so mad at me but I knew she couldn't be alone any longer and I was afraid I would go to visit and find...